Thought of the Week— Pause

In our 24/7 fast paced world we are constantly bombarded with information and updates. At times the message can please and that is great. However, with the current gotcha culture we live in we get more negative stories and updates. When you get this information you have a choice to make; react or reflect. I recommend that you pause and insure that you get all the facts before reacting to the news. Oftentimes we find breaking news to not be completely accurate and hitting the pause button is a great first step. Reflect and pause is your best way forward and it will serve you well.

Onwards!
Dh

Thought of the Week — The Best Revenge is Success!

 

We all have at one time or another felt slighted, ignored, put down or simply wronged.

Over the years I have reacted sometimes appropriately and at other times inappropriately to these incidents. What was a constant is that each case as added stress in my life and I stewed bitterly.

What I have learned is that the best way to move positively forward is to not hold grudges. A person or company failing you is a tough situation. However, don’t get bitter and hold grudges, instead take the situation and allow it to fuel your next chapter success.

Onwards!
Dh

Thought of the Week – Real Leadership

We all like to think we recognize success and appreciate true leadership when we see it. We have witnessed leaders create a movement, set passions afire and create a winning culture delivering unprecedented results. Conversely, we have seen companies with competent leaders with perceived credentials at the helm who barely maintain an organizational heartbeat. The critical question is what separates the two?

From my perspective the difference is the vision, courage, passion, authenticity and genuineness that the leader can package together to mobilize the team. It not about how smart you are, it’s about how firmly you inspire others to galvanize around critical beliefs to drive and ultimately own the agenda. Remember, before you can do anything you have to first believe you can.

So regardless if you are the leader of the movement or part of it make sure that you don’t fall short of developing the competencies to help drive a winning movement. It does not hurt to be relentlessly driven as well.

You will be challenged many times along the path. Never allow your resolve to achieve your vision to weaken before the finish line. Good luck on your personal journey.

Onwards!
Dh

*Originally posted on LinkedIn

Thought of the Week – Results not Rhetoric

Words should matter but results are what truly count. A good story will never compare to real results. Hold everyone especially yourself accountable to deliver results.

Onwards!

dh

 

*Originally posts on LinkedIn

Thought of the Week- Dream Big

Have you noticed children playing and dreaming big, possessing even bigger imaginations. Have you ever stopped and thought where this ability to imagine goes as you have aged? Along the way many, if not nearly all of us, somehow lose that ability to dream. We need to recapture that ability to dream big, that true feeling of excitement. We need to use that gift and spend time thinking about possibilities to make big things happen in our lives and business. Never allow yourself to stop dreaming by giving into your fears. Breakthroughs do not happen obsessing on the basics. Make time to dream and to dream big.

Onwards!
Dh

*Originally posted on LinkedIn

Thought of the Week — Get Your Focus On

On any given day we are inundated with questions, tasks and concerns. All can have the ability to get you off your game and drain your batteries. As the saying goes the main thing is to keep the main thing as the main thing. Focus on the things that move the needle. The rest needs to be managed but should never be given the priority. Know your main thing and focus on it.

Onwards!
Dh

 

*Originally posted on LinkedIn

Thought of the Week — Make Your Life Matter

Today, it feels that there is an ever increasing and inflated sense of self importance from many of those around us. That to get on you have to agree with another’s point of view or you are labeled as idiot or worse.

In today’s environment I can see why more people are leery about stating they want to be successful. Just pick up any paper or scan the internet on any given day and read how more and more the articles ridicule personal wealth and the trappings that come with success. We all should get to make our own decisions and choose our own path.

At the same time there is a group of people who want to be successful but do not want to put the hard work in to actually earn it. They spend more time ridiculing people who are successful and brewing up resentment.

For those committed to learning your craft. I congratulate you for investing in your self. Your future will be bright if you out think, out work the competition and you positively apply yourself to be a force for good. In essence, I contend you have already won and you are on the road to making your life matter.

Onwards!
Dh

 

*first published on LinkedIn

Thought of the Week – Words Matter

I am a firm believer that actions speak louder than words. However, that does not mean that words are mere throw always. As a person and especially as a leader make sure that you are kind with your words. Don’t automatically judge, rush to a conclusion or simply vent. Think about the words you choose to use both verbally, written and especially on social media.

Words do matter and help shape thoughts that in turn drive action. Encourage through words and you will be shaping yourself and others for a better life. Make them count.

Onwards!
Dh

*Originally posted on LinkedIn

Thought of the Week – Earn Your Respect

Respect should always be earned, never expected, given lightly or taken for granted.

Thought of the Week – What’s Your Real Net Worth

If I asked you what your net worth is you’d probably start thinking about your assets and the like. However, in this instance I do not mean your monetary net worth. I am thinking about about your true net worth; your personal net worth.

The real question we should really ask ourselves continuously is are we having a positive impact on those around us? Do our positive contributions outweigh your shortcomings? List out what your positive contributions are and then make plans to expand those contributions. The goal is that we all leave a positive impact with our good far outweighing our bad. Below is a quote from Ben Franklin who centuries ago thought the same way.

” Your net worth to the world is usually determined by what remains after your bad habits are subtracted from your good ones” – Ben Franklin

Onwards!
Dh

*First published on LinkedIn